Happy 2018! It’s about one month into the new year, and consequently, the time when everyone is changing everything.

After the lavishness and abundance of Christmastime, everyone is ready to settle down, tighten their budgets, watch their diets, get organized, and make more room in their lives for prayer.

“Come the first of the year, things are going to change around here,” is something my dad would always repeat leading up to the new year.

This longing for change is best explained below, 


“It is Jesus who stirs in you the desire to follow an ideal, the courage to commit yourselves humbly and patiently to improving yourselves and society, making the world more human and more fraternal.”

-St. John Paul II


We have an inherent desire for this. Why?

One name: Jesus.

He is the reason every new year we desire MORE for ourselves and others. The reason why our rat-raced autopilot to keep up, get ahead, and accumulate stuff will not completely satisfy.


Imagine yourself at your very best

Imagine the person who you strive to be. Way down in your deepest and truest heart. Right now, close your eyes and open your hands. Surrender your imagination to Jesus.

Picture how you spend your time, the way you treat others, the choices you make, and the way you honor God. Don’t stop this time of prayer until you have a clear vision of who you would be. Write it down, if possible.

Got it? Fantastic. Guess what? THIS IS WHO YOU ARE. Chosen, cherished, handmade child of God, created in His own image and likeness: THIS IS YOU! THIS is your truest most authentic self.


Why Do We Settle?

We settle because we freely choose to ride the tide around us, instead of building our own tide rooted in Christ.


Here’s the KEY though. If we do fall short of our true selves and who He created us to be, we MUST put on “the courage to commit humbly and patiently to improve.”  

This must be our life blood. When we fail, so quickly pride makes it all about us. It is not about us. It’s about God’s mercy and glory.

Meanwhile, guilt swoops in to send us on a downward spiral of self-hatred which only causes more falling.

If and when we fall short, let us accept the gift of mercy that Christ has already paid for, shed the mask of a false life, and move forward in grace.

You are so worthwhile, so precious in the sight God. You are honored,  loved,  created, and chosen for more greatness than you can fathom.

The Father created you on purpose, and for a purpose. He needs you, the truest you, to bring your light to this world. If you do not fulfill your call, friend, no one will.


No one can be you.  It’s actually just so urgent that you remember who are; claim who you are, and live the abundant life you were created for.

“New Year, New You?” Nah. New Year, True You.

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 Amber Dematte

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Amber has been "married to camp" for a decade and head over heals in love! She is wife to Dan, and a mother to four biologically- but considers it her call in God's kingdom to be a mama to all of her camp family. Outside of family and Catholic Youth Summer Camp, her passions include cheese, travel, coffee, writing and speaking about Jesus' love, mercy and power.

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